Need Help.......

[auneeqsol]

Well, well, let's see what's goin on here....

Well first of all everything that was quoted was said earlier as I have read for myself...

But for the most part AT I see what point you are trying to make, but yet and still I think you could have just taken the lil information hischild gave you and ran with it.

We still have yet to find out the reason behind her wanting to fellowship elsewhere, and him wanting her to stay. And trust me there is a root to everything.

Now this situation seems all too familiar to me first of all , bout 5 yrs ago I left my church my husband and i were both attending and serving in leadership at. My husband was Elder in training and I was minister of music. And things went the way they went with some ppl and got out of order, the pastor himself had his foot on my neck, so the result of the oppression was that I and some others left.

Now im back in the same ministry to go at it one more gen. And the same situation has come up magnified more. But God gave me specific instructions not to leave. Not because I dont have a calling on my life, but he wants to perfect me in some areas even though I would not be the center of all the chaos. He told me to not leave without your husband and dont manipulate him to leave. Now my husband sees everything that ppl was saying all alone. At the time, he was not mature enough to let it go, but now God has mapped out a plan, and everything is going to work out for our good.

There are some things that God wants to show ppl in his own timing. And there is nothing too hard for God. And no situation is impossible though it may seem like it. And God will not let us be consumed by a matter especially if we are leaning and depending on him to guide us through.

Like i showed, I am a living witness to a situation like this, and I can say, i had to go right back and learn it the way God wanted me to, so that I can truly be free, and see the hand of the Lord move on my behalf as well as others.

God has a timing, and we must trust the word that "All things do work for the good of those who love the Lord and who are the called according to his purpose"
Rom 8:28

So be encouraged hischild, and look to the Lord.

AT like i said i see the point you were making, but sometimes God would have you to go straight through, instead of take another route around. Theres reason and purpose in everything God does.

[anointedteacher]

auneeqsol said:

Well, well, let's see what's goin on here....

Well first of all everything that was quoted was said earlier as I have read for myself...

But for the most part AT I see what point you are trying to make, but yet and still I think you could have just taken the lil information hischild gave you and ran with it.

We still have yet to find out the reason behind her wanting to fellowship elsewhere, and him wanting her to stay. And trust me there is a root to everything.

Now this situation seems all too familiar to me first of all , bout 5 yrs ago I left my church my husband and i were both attending and serving in leadership at. My husband was Elder in training and I was minister of music. And things went the way they went with some ppl and got out of order, the pastor himself had his foot on my neck, so the result of the oppression was that I and some others left.

Now im back in the same ministry to go at it one more gen. And the same situation has come up magnified more. But God gave me specific instructions not to leave. Not because I dont have a calling on my life, but he wants to perfect me in some areas even though I would not be the center of all the chaos. He told me to not leave without your husband and dont manipulate him to leave. Now my husband sees everything that ppl was saying all alone. At the time, he was not mature enough to let it go, but now God has mapped out a plan, and everything is going to work out for our good.

There are some things that God wants to show ppl in his own timing. And there is nothing too hard for God. And no situation is impossible though it may seem like it. And God will not let us be consumed by a matter especially if we are leaning and depending on him to guide us through.

Like i showed, I am a living witness to a situation like this, and I can say, i had to go right back and learn it the way God wanted me to, so that I can truly be free, and see the hand of the Lord move on my behalf as well as others.

God has a timing, and we must trust the word that "All things do work for the good of those who love the Lord and who are the called according to his purpose"
Rom 8:28

So be encouraged hischild, and look to the Lord.

AT like i said i see the point you were making, but sometimes God would have you to go straight through, instead of take another route around. Theres reason and purpose in everything God does.

Thank you for your post

God dealt with you as an individual and gave you instruction to stay..... That what I was trying to say.... hear from God and follow Him instruction on what to do.

I also went through the mud, my pastor hated me.... Open rebuke over the pulpit.... sometime I didn't know why I was being rebuke. I was faithful in tithes, offering, attendence, cleaning the church, and doing whatever they told me to do. although I was set down in ministry and my ministerial license was taken. I was set down for over six years and I received my license back after seven years. This did not stop me from being faithful. The church splited and I'm no longer under that pastor. I got so depress one nigth, that I took a hand full of pills in the back of the church. That why I say HisChild heart must change toward the church and only God can do that.

Thank You

AT

[Jasmine]

You've got to be kidding right? wow. oh wow. That was absolutely insane.

where is the ban button?

[And Such Were Some Of You]

Jasmine,

My finger has the itch, don't worry!

[Beulah5]

His Child it sounds as if there is no vision in your marriage in the first place.

Why do you believe God brought you and your husband together in the first place and why did He lead you to that church? Is your husband comfortable with you leaving-if he isnt then you are to stay and submit. Both of you attending different churches CAN and is potentially opening up a door to a can of worms. Did God tell you to marry your husband?

If He did then he is your designated authority to whom you must submit. If your husband wants you to stay there then stay there-you have obviously prayed and fasted and the answer is before you-stay where you are.
If it was otherwise God would have told your husband by now and made a way for you to leave so my sister that is your answer.

Anointed Teacher please go sit down somewhere you have no business seeing dead folks in your dreams anyway.

Anointed

[Hischild]

Please, no more fighting!!! I just wanted a little Godly wisdom. This is not worth the saints lashing out at each other. I want to thank each and every one of you for your resposes. Let's just end this discussion.

Nikkol if you want to delete this you can, because it just doesn't look good to anyone that could be visiting this site. God bless you all!!!

[Beck]

Im so glad this is a Christian Forum . I was worried for a second...

[Nikkol]

Based on HISCHILD's suggestion, this thread is being locked.

Please use the information as needed.

Edited:
Just for all, I did send her a PM indicating how I didn't lie in regards to anything that was stated. Anyone that would like a copy of that, please PM me and I will PM it to you.

However, we will not allow for blatant disrespect on the board and to call people names and use the board to try to demean people. We can talk about anything on the board and I've been very lenient (as well as KANYON) and this is unlike how some people have felt that I should've handled the situation. This is why in many occasions I have taken things "offline" as to discuss it on a private manner and to not allow "feelings" for people to change based on some posts.

Let's keep this in mind and continue to share and let's make sure that we don't make "facts" out of experience or by what we see.