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Post by anointedteacher on Jan 27, 2008 15:09:39 GMT -5
Thanks for the responses................... How can two saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled ministers of the gospel justify divorce when the only cause for divorce is irreconcilable differences? How can two saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled, ministers of the gospel not live together on Earth in harmony? Try living with the person you described in the thread up above... I will not mentioning his name. You gave a good description of this person... Do U think U can Live with him with his attitude and knowing what he is capably(sp) of doing. Personilities don't always match... Two opposite can not fit... What bother me is that ppl take marriage like shoes... you try them on and it fit and feel good, till you wear them out, they begin to hurt your feet, so you throw them away and get another pair of shoes. Sometime you have to break them in and they begin to feel good again. Personalities and attitudes can change over the years to fit and they can match.... |
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Post by livinganewlife on Jan 28, 2008 10:35:03 GMT -5
Thanks for the responses................... How can two saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled ministers of the gospel justify divorce when the only cause for divorce is irreconcilable differences? How can two saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled, ministers of the gospel not live together on Earth in harmony? Try living with the person you described in the thread up above... I will not mentioning his name. You gave a good description of this person... Do U think U can Live with him with his attitude and knowing what he is capably(sp) of doing. I am saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled in ministry and I live every day with a saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled husband in the ministry.......and other on this BB live with saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled spouses and seem to being doind alright.... what's the big deal in trying to live with someone saved......are you saying it is impossible...... most of the time people don't understand their roles in marriage... |
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Post by anointedteacher on Jan 28, 2008 12:08:37 GMT -5
Try living with the person you described in the thread up above... I will not mentioning his name. You gave a good description of this person... Do U think U can Live with him with his attitude and knowing what he is capably(sp) of doing. I am saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled in ministry and I live every day with a saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled husband in the ministry.......and other on this BB live with saved, sanctified, holy ghost filled spouses and seem to being doind alright.... what's the big deal in trying to live with someone saved......are you saying it is impossible...... most of the time people don't understand their roles in marriage... No... that not what I am saying.... some ppl just don't get along... and they are saved, sanctified, holy ghost baptisted and can't get along with each other. Most know their role in marriage, but if a person never was taught how to be loving, to be fair and give and refuse to bent, there a problem. Some ppl are selffish, and want everything their way.... This go for male & female, some ppl have some bad ways.. Just because you know and see some marriage work, doesn't mean there are some that didn't. We don't know why these marriage failed and what cause it not to work. You can't say a person didn't know their role and didn't do their part. There are men and women who are not only doing their part, but bent over backward trying their best to please their spouse and ended up at the divorce court. I am talking about saved, sanctified, holy baptized couples. There are cold ppl in the church and on the pulpit.. My aunt had to run pregnant with two small children for her life. She had a powerful holy ghost preacher that travel from state to state preaching the gospel, laying hands on the sick, casing demon, for a husband. He almost straved her to death, she was 5'10" 8 month pregnant at 90 pound. She got marry at 18, and she tried to be the perfect preacher wife, the man was just mean and cold and abused her physically, mental and spiritually. He got remarried without divorcing her... My cousin was 38 years old when he first saw his father and that was at his brother funeral. The man is dead and my aunt will be 75 this year, she never remarry, she was my mother twin sister. Too Many ppl getting marry for the wrong reason, to the wrong person, at the wrong time. When I was on campus and part of the campus ministry, there was too much pushing toward marriage. Students was getting marry left to right and dropping out of school. Everything was couple this and that, instead of maturing in Christ and doing the things for God. It was a lot of pressure to stay single. I was being pressure to marry my best friend and prayer partner.. I like the guy, but I wasn't in Love. Yes, we both were saved, sanctified and holy Ghost filled and all we had in common was prayer and studying the Word.. We were both artist, Art Major, we had classes togather. I had to ask myself, do I really love him, do I really want to live with him for the rest of my life? The answer was NO... I left or dropped of school and move to Miami, Florida and he live in NY... It been 261/2 since I saw him... I finally found him on myspace and we just sent each other a small message. Almost all of the sudents that got married are divorced and all of them were saved. |
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