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Post by anointedteacher on Apr 1, 2008 10:57:48 GMT -5
Juanita Bynum will be on Inside Edition tonight.... I think
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Post by vindicated on Apr 1, 2008 11:27:16 GMT -5
Oh okay. The conversation was going like it was recent. That was a few years ago. He's been on TBN since then. I don't remember if he's hosted but I remember he preached during the telethon.
I think it's cool that they change up on hosts. There are so many people out there who can bring so much more to the programs. I enjoy when CeCe hosts because of the people she brings on, and also Donnie Mc. He has good guests also. They lean more toward the AA Christian artists and preachers but that's good. Because the others usually don't, for the most part.
Another thing that happens too is that once they come on TBN and get exposed to that world audience their ministry takes off more. They get more engagements and the demands on their ministry increases. TBN acts as a springboard to ministy.
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 1, 2008 11:34:35 GMT -5
NO..he hasn't this happened after his first divorce..they had him during the PraiseAthon as he was preparing for his divorce from his first wife.
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 1, 2008 11:38:16 GMT -5
Okay..what have we learned from this mess ? It's not that no one cares to hear about what happened to between TW or JBW..it's that there are certain things that she cannot do because of the call of God on her life. We all want to the fame and fortune..yet, those are very things that tamper with anointing that comes along with that call that we think belongs to us..it's God.
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Post by anointedteacher on Apr 1, 2008 12:02:38 GMT -5
Well .... Prophetess Bynum is going on with her life, I got a private message on myspace from Crystal, they will be on a tour in London this month... I was going to ask if I can come but it wouldn't be possible even if they say jump on board. .
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 1, 2008 12:19:41 GMT -5
You know I am glad she is..since she is..(not being mean)...can we ?? God is doing some awesome things amongst his people and I am realizing if we are too caught up in things that he doesn't want us to be caught up in..we will miss Him and I for one am not trying to miss Him or anything that he wants to did in my life..be blessed all !!
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Post by anointedteacher on Apr 1, 2008 12:28:24 GMT -5
Did you get your Book Yet?.... my flesh want to know what is inside, but I can't continue to feed my flesh
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 1, 2008 12:30:05 GMT -5
I have 2 books by him..and I checked to if Borders had it..as I will not buy any book unles leady the Lord.
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Post by anointedteacher on Apr 1, 2008 18:44:42 GMT -5
I saw Prophetess on Inside Edition.... I didn't know she had suicidal thoughts... she said it hurted so bad, she was going or tried to take an overdose of pills (didn't hear the name) WOW.... I can't even amagine what she went throught with ppl tearing her down, it is enough to make you loose your mind or hurt yourself She will be on Divorce Court April 24 and 25... It going to be interesting.
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 2, 2008 13:40:21 GMT -5
Yeah..interesting !! But, to who !! What is she trying to prove ? She had suicidal thoughts many years, ago. Even though this maybe a season for her to step out of the limelight..she still remains there. How you can allow God to heal with are disobedient to Him ? Many have profitted and gained from her ministry..yet, I believe she saw that her popularity was waning a little and instead of resting in the Father..she made the choice to stay in the forefront. Sometimes are just not worth losing your anointing over..
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Post by vindicated on Apr 3, 2008 9:48:49 GMT -5
I agree SF. I understand that sometimes God will have to go while you're hurting and He will heal you as you go. BUT there are other times when we need to go into a private place to heal. This is her second marriage and in both the man she was married to has "put his hands on her". Her first husband would fight. This one admitted to pushing.
Unless she's willing and ready to go to God to find out what's broken inside her, she's not in a real position to do much ministering at all and certainly not be the face of domestic violence. The question that should be looming in her head is Why do I keep winding up in this position? There is a reason it keeps happening and the reason lies within her, not the men. If she gets it right within herself she won't keep creating the same scenarios. I know this from experience.
But it seems like she was so busy trying to capitalize off of it that she just started talking and talking. Even people in the secular world said that what she needed was a time to step away from ministry and get some healing.
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 3, 2008 11:59:51 GMT -5
Vindicate..I agree !! They have been saying that all along. My sister said one woman the area she lives in sa " If she had her (self) and that isn't the word she used home taking care of her husband..she wouldn't have got her butt whipped"..I know that wasn't a nice thing to say..but, the woman wasn't saved and she said it like she saw it.. My prayer is that she would allow God to heal her..because I know of a situation that happened over a year and I am feeling reprecussions of the decision not allow God to heal..yet, to stop back into ministry after a 2 -3 mth sabbatical..lack of trust in any form is not joke. Especially when you're preaching and laying hands on folk..
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Post by anointed on Apr 3, 2008 13:37:43 GMT -5
My sister said one woman the area she lives in sa " If she had her (self) and that isn't the word she used home taking care of her husband..she wouldn't have got her butt whipped"... Stillfocused, why do you feel the need to post what this woman said? Juanita Bynum's domestic duties doesn't justify her getting her butt whipped. I'm not only speaking of Juanita Bynum but of every woman who has experienced this. Therefore, the statement your sister heard this woman say is very ignorant. A person getting their "butt whipped" in a marriage is never justifiable, for a sinner or a saint. Just my opinion (if that's what we want to call it.)
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Post by anointed on Apr 3, 2008 13:42:27 GMT -5
There is a reason it keeps happening and the reason lies within her, not the men. If she gets it right within herself she won't keep creating the same scenarios. I know this from experience. That's not always true. How do I know? People can change over time, esp. in a marriage.
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Post by vindicated on Apr 3, 2008 14:10:37 GMT -5
People can change in a marriage but in a marriage BOTH people have to change. In order for them both to change both have to see the need to change, and both have to be willing to change. Unfortunately it's usually one who wants to change and the other who wants to lay blame.
What we did in this situation was looked at "he hit her, choked her" whatever she said he did, we looked at the pictures and saw the bruises and immediately began to crucify the man. We don't know what happened. Everybody says domestic violence is always wrong no matter what. I agree with that. But many women provoke men. They abuse men. They badger men. They disrespect men. Cheat on them. They do this to tenderhearted men who they know will do anything for them. They do it because they think the men will always be there. They push men over the edge. Anybody will snap if driven far enough.
The statement I made is always true. But you have to see it for what it is instead of trying to decide who the victim is in the situation. If a woman is going from one bad relationship to another, one abusive relationship to another, one cheater to another, the issues lie within HER not the men she's choosing. Yes they are abusers, cheaters, whatnot. But the real question is, why does she keep winding up with these kinds of men? Why are these the men she is most attracted to? Asking those questions doesn't mean it's "her fault" or that she "deserves it". It just means she needs to take a look at herself and be honest about what she believes about herself. does she believe that it will always be this way no matter who she's with? Is she afraid of a healthy relationship and therefore sabotages every one she's in? What does she believe she deserves? What does she believe about her future? And before anybody comes behind and tries to answer that for her, please don't. It's not about what any of us think she thinks she deserves, but what SHE thinks. She says what she believes, not us. As a man thinks so is he, or so does he become. You'd be surprised at the secret thoughts that people have about life and their life.
It's not an easy pill to swallow but it needs to be swallowed and that is... YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE. A MAN OR WOMAN AIN'T NO BETTER THAN WHAT THEY LAY WITH.
People have critcized that man for things he said and taught but guess what...she was right on that stage or on that front row endorsing every bit of it. And he endorsed her when she was talking crazy.
This is also his second marriage and from what I've heard him say, his first wife was a trip too. So both of them need healing and both need to do some soul searching to get to the bottom of what is broken in them that keeps driving them back to people who treat them the way they do. Any phychologist will tell you that, and so will God, because He told me. And He healed me.
OH and He didn't heal me in public either. He healed me in private. In a lonely place with just me and Him where He could talk to me and tell me about myself and show me the brokenness in myself that kept me reaching for the wrong men. After your healing, you can go public. Which is why I'm working on my book. I can tell it now because I'm out. And I can now tell how God brought me out. When you're in and can't see how to get out and are suicidal that is NOT the time to be doing conferences. That is NOT the time to be laying hands on anybody.
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