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Post by zelica on Mar 19, 2008 12:03:38 GMT -5
Well... sister it been... since October of 1986  I still have my moment.. I take authority over it... and don't put myself in bad position.... God can keep you, if you want to be kept. WOW I was 6 years old in 86 LOL, Ive also been living a life of celibacy all my life.....I pray to God that I dont end up a old maid or a NUN at least that is not the life I want for myself anyways... You know I dont want much I just want to be happy and I want to share my life with someone I trully love and I want my husband who ever he might be be my first and my last ;D |
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 19, 2008 12:05:04 GMT -5
AT..you got me beat !! I honestly didn't think it would be over 10 yrs before I got married.
Everyone is telling me that I have been sat apart to stand alone..I don't know about all of that. Yet, say that during those the more time I spent with the Lord the more I realized I didn't know myself as well as I thought and I truly wasn't ready for marriage..even after 2 proposals and a couple of maybes.
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Post by zelica on Mar 19, 2008 12:06:14 GMT -5
Well... sister it been... since October of 1986 I still have my moment.. I take authority over it... and don't put myself in bad position.... God can keep you, if you want to be kept. 22 yrs ? WOW that is a very long time. I keep saying I am going to wear my husband out lol He better be in the best shape of his life when I get him. I know thats RIGHT True!!! I am also trying to get in real good shape as well.... Cuz when I get my husband it is ON  oops did I say that out loud ROFLOL |
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 19, 2008 13:11:51 GMT -5
Just maybe that's he ain't came yet !! |
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Post by zelica on Mar 19, 2008 13:17:51 GMT -5
Just maybe that's he ain't came yet !! I really hope so cuz I really dont want to be alone always. |
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 19, 2008 14:32:53 GMT -5
Don't worry you won't...he will come when you least expect it..because you'll be too busy what God wants you to ..
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Post by true on Mar 19, 2008 14:44:00 GMT -5
22 yrs ? WOW that is a very long time. I keep saying I am going to wear my husband out lol He better be in the best shape of his life when I get him. I know thats RIGHT True!!! I am also trying to get in real good shape as well.... Cuz when I get my husband it is ON oops did I say that out loud ROFLOL Girl start doing your calisthenics he's right around the corner. |
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Post by zelica on Mar 19, 2008 15:47:18 GMT -5
I know thats RIGHT True!!! I am also trying to get in real good shape as well.... Cuz when I get my husband it is ON oops did I say that out loud ROFLOL Girl start doing your calisthenics he's right around the corner. Im getting right on it girl ;D lol |
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Post by Beulah5 on Mar 20, 2008 18:15:37 GMT -5
Just cross em real tight till the feeling subsides. Drinking lots of water and having a pee always helps too.
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 21, 2008 11:55:09 GMT -5
beulah..you're funny !! It's called self control !!
On a more serious note..take this time to get to know your body and it's signals. The body is amazing..even with all the changes it goes through.
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Post by kitty on Mar 21, 2008 12:02:44 GMT -5
hey Guys...
You know what. I truly appreciate you guys! You don't know just how much. I have an very interesting experience yesterday talking about living a life of celibacy. I went to lunch with my aunt and told her that I hadn't had premarial sex since 2001 and that i didn't intend to do it again until I was married.
I was really suprised at her response. She was shocked. Not only that she made it clear that she didn't think it was normal. I told her it was because of my faith in God that i wouldn't cross that line again. She told me that I was naive if I thought that any man Christian or not would go along with that... she even acted like I was a part of a cult. I mean really it was a surprise...
This I thank you call for being my sisters in Christ... and walking this walk with me.
God Bless!
Kitty
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 21, 2008 12:09:52 GMT -5
Kitty..they do find it strange and for them it is nutty..because though they make be saved and loving the Lord..their fulfillment in not the love of Christ; but, in the need of having a man to love. And just so you know..any man who doesn't go for that isn't for you because one who knows the heart of his Father will do what his Fathers tells him to do even if it sounds or looks crazy to anyone else !!
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 21, 2008 12:11:53 GMT -5
Another reason that she maybe surprised is because there are many saved women out there who have repeatedly and continue to cross the line and see nothing wrong with it..
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Post by stillfocused on Mar 21, 2008 12:15:02 GMT -5
Shucks !! I look at like this : I am not a shoe that you need to try on to see if it fits..and neither am I a car that you can test drive to decide whether or not I am going to be purchased..
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Post by true on Mar 21, 2008 16:49:59 GMT -5
I had a friend who was out there, I mean getting down with the get down. Then she meets her husband and makes him wait til they got married. Go figure!
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I still have my moment.. I take authority over it... and don't put myself in bad position.... God can keep you, if you want to be kept.
oops did I say that out loud ROFLOL