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Post by true on Mar 28, 2008 13:57:27 GMT -5
As for B5 always slaying me you are a nut for real.
Ms Kitty, I hope to atleast receive my man this year, we can marry next year .
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Post by anointedteacher on Mar 28, 2008 19:30:44 GMT -5
When I was young like you and True... How old do you think I am baby cakes ? I am a lot older than I look  You don't look a day over 30.... |
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Post by true on Mar 28, 2008 21:18:14 GMT -5
That's why I love you !!!!!!
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Post by kitty on Mar 29, 2008 14:22:18 GMT -5
OK Guys,
I just have to confess my faith one more time...
I believe that this is the year of the promise... I will walk into the marriage that God has for me this year in 2008.
Amen!
Kitty
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Post by zelica on Mar 29, 2008 16:09:42 GMT -5
OK Guys, I just have to confess my faith one more time... I believe that this is the year of the promise... I will walk into the marriage that God has for me this year in 2008. Amen! Kitty You betta hurry sis cuz this year is flyin bye but I know God is a miracle working God!!! |
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Post by kitty on Mar 29, 2008 16:27:18 GMT -5
Jessica,
I still got 9 months.... Hhhmmm 9 months... just enough time to birth it out!
Kitty
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Post by kitty on Mar 29, 2008 16:29:23 GMT -5
no but seriously....
All I need is the one God intended.... I can do without the wedding...
Just me, the man, church and the preacher is all that is needed... I can throw a reception at another time.
Kitty
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Post by true on Mar 29, 2008 17:30:20 GMT -5
Kitty I have said the same thing ! I figure we can do it again and have a big wedding later if we want but for now lets get married lol
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Post by anointedteacher on Mar 29, 2008 20:09:48 GMT -5
Jessica, I still got 9 months.... Hhhmmm 9 months... just enough time to birth it out! Kitty So.. Kitty, you going birth out a husband? You might ended up with Bishop Weak, I mean Weeks.... That's what JB did ;D ;D Posted by kitty on Today at 5:29pm Go on and follow Nita steps   ... |
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Post by true on Mar 29, 2008 20:59:26 GMT -5
Listen to Ateacher cracking me up lmbo@weak I mean weeks
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Post by kitty on Apr 1, 2008 14:50:55 GMT -5
Hey AT,
You know i don't believe in birth out grown folk!
Kitty
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Post by kitty on Apr 1, 2008 15:03:23 GMT -5
By the way Guys... I just want to share some thoughts with you all that crossed my mind this past monday.
yesterday I was in clinical for my Nursing program. I got a chance to go to observe some surgeries that were in progress. Now this is something that is close to my heart! I believe that i will end up being a surgical nurse or working in the O.R. at some point in my medical career.
So I like to watch surgeries done... But yesterday i was not focused. i couldn't focus for anything! I was struggling to focus. I started having an internal dialog as to why I just couldn't keep my mind on things of importance! Especially the total knee replacement that was going on in front of my face in which the surgeons actually busted out with the the electric saws!!!
Then the thought hit me as i recalled a friend of mine going through the same thing years back... I realized that to get the focus back that I am used to having that i would need to get married first. If I had the same content peaceful mind set that i did before then I would simply wait until I had all of my ducks in a row. That's not what God planned...
So..inspite of the fact that the church may always declare that a woman should have it all together before getting hitched the truth is that only God can really declare if we are ready or not... This I realize is not an obsession... But a way that God may be keeping my mind on His plan and not my own...
Because Kitty's plan was always to finish all of my education and have a cushy job first. I realized that's not going to happen... Then I was hoping that I would at least finish school...that didn't go as planned and years went by... Now I was hopping to get to my senior year... Chances are I won't before changing my name from Ms. to Mrs.
Kitty
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Post by kitty on Apr 1, 2008 15:24:50 GMT -5
Oh yeah... the story about the friend... I just got to share it because it was the first time that i saw this kind of thing happen.
About 10 years ago back when I was in medical school i had a friend that was a fellow student. I just call him "E" to save him of any embarrasement. Well "E" was like a star student in medical school! He was breezing through the tough classes and it seemed like he had a a photographic memory or something. He was one of those people who would come to lecture and just listen...
Brother was bad...i mean he was smart he wouldn't even take notes! Just listen in class read the book and boom he was knocking out these medical exams! He always seemed to be at peace and he was in a good mood. He didn't seem to be stressed or about time or anything.
Then the next year things changed around for "E". All of a sudden he was flunking out of school!!! Everybody was like what the heck is going on with "E"?!! he got this tremendous weight gain to the point that he was literally busting out of his clothes... he couldn't concentrate worth a dime!
I would see him go off to study and then realize that he was falling asleep. At one point I wondered if he was depressed...
Then another friend broke it down for me... She said girl.... "E" is in love... all he needs to do is go ahead and get married and he will be back to his off self again. I was like "What?!!" That's crazy talk! In my mind if that's what getting deeply involved meant then it was something to be advoided! Heck I was like when does "E" have time see this "chick" anyways cuz we got 14 hour days up in this joint!
And i mean that literally... when I was in medical school we had 14 hour days!!! About 5 hours in class and the rest of the time studying EVERYDAY!
So when the friend told me that "E" problem was that he was he needed to get married to regain balance I thought she was NUTS! I thought she crazy! I thought she was just spectulating...
Plus I thought the same way that most people do... I said to myself. Heck "E" is living hand to mouth as it is... how on earth would he get married. He doens't have a job! He is full time student!
WELL>>>>>> It came to pass just as my friend stated...
Turned out that "E" was dating an older woman... She was already a doctor had was stable. "E" failed a few classes... But over the summer he got married... and by that fall... He was back to his old self...
What I expected to bring chaos and stress to one's life actually brought peace and balance!
Just as my predicted "E" was again balanced and knocking those classes outta the park!
Some of us walking around... aren't going to hit out stride until we get married and I think this goes double for men!
Kitty
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Post by stillfocused on Apr 1, 2008 17:00:01 GMT -5
And that may be the truth..
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Post by anointedteacher on Apr 1, 2008 19:26:11 GMT -5
E is very smart!!!.... he fell in love with a older rich woman who can paid his way through medical school and take good care of him... Weeks and Bobby messed up... they had it made.... all they had to do is be a good husband and their wives would have taken good care of them, financially....
When I was in school... I couldn't even go to class, because I was madly in love with JC and thought I was in love with SW.... I spended all my time with JC, I will spend all morning reading about Him and all afternoon talking about Him and all night communicating with Him, and SW used to join me.... I thought I was in Love with SW too, because he loved JC almost as much as I did... To guard my heart, I decided to move to Miami from NJ... I knew JC with by my side even though he warned me what I will experience when I move... but I left anyway and JC was with me and never left me.... I left SW because I love him so much, but I didn't want to get hurt (he had a grilfriend in NY and didn't break off from her). We spend so much time with each other in studying the Word, prayer and just hunging out, we even ate breakfast, lunch and dinner together, spend the whole weekend together. JC was my #1, no one came before Him. I didn't understand why JC didn't want me to marry SW... I didn't understand, till recently (26 1/2 years later), SW nolonger serve the Lord... I don't think he even go to church anymore. I located him on myspace and he singing Ray Charles songs... although he look nothing like Ray Charles... We communicated a little through myspace and I was disappointed, because he don't serve the Lord like he used to... I am praying for him and his family.
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