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Post by stillfocused on Dec 10, 2008 13:03:15 GMT -5
This has been on my mind for a few days.. anyway. What do you tell someone who is married and in need of counseling...yet, neither can agree on where to go..as neither agrees on whose Pastor to go to. Yet, one Pastor would like to do counseling over the phone even though the other spouse has made it known that is not what they want to do...
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Post by kitty on Dec 10, 2008 14:33:25 GMT -5
Maybe they should try both...
Kitty
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Post by stillfocused on Dec 10, 2008 14:52:24 GMT -5
Agreed..but, neither likes the other's Pastor
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Post by anointedteacher on Dec 10, 2008 18:27:07 GMT -5
I will stay out of other ppl mess...
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Post by krazeeboi on Dec 10, 2008 21:39:34 GMT -5
Pick another (3rd) pastor or counselor.
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Post by Poetricia (G.A.P.) on Dec 11, 2008 7:03:34 GMT -5
Neither liking the other's pastor? Wonder why? Is it just that they think the pastor will take the side of the spouse that attends his/her church? Or is it some other reason?
A third pastor they both feel nuetral about would be good. A third pastor that both either like or okay with or don't know at all, but respect and trust what they know/have heard about him/her.
Marriage troubles abound, my single heart aches for the couples I know personally who are going through. From the outside looking in, I don't know everything, but what I do know brings tears to my eyes. Marriage is being attacked on all fronts and the enemy means to destroy this holy institution, not just in the courts, but in the house of God, one marriage at a time.
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Post by Nikkol on Dec 11, 2008 8:18:14 GMT -5
I agree. You can try another pastor or even just go see a Christian counsellor.
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