Post by chosen on Nov 8, 2007 4:04:01 GMT -5
By J Bryant:
For those of us who are single or married be blessed by this
word!
I often warn women who are contemplating marriage to marry someone who can take care of them. When a woman marries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of taking her to the next level. If she comes from poverty, there is no reason for her to get married and still be impoverished. The role of the Man is to take her to another place.
When she gets married she ought to dress better, drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantly be in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from. My grandmother used to say “I can do bad all by myself”. For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, ofcourse, would be to find a Christian man, who’s settled, has goals, accomplishments and a job.
But a goal oriented and focused man can’t just be approached any kind of way. So the woman who seeks this type of stability must make sure that she stands out above the crowd:
1. Make sure that your relationship with the Lord is strong and growing.
2. Make sure that you are presentable. Working from the inside out, your presentation should be representative of both who you are and whom you seek. Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself.
3. Have the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.
4. And most importantly allow the Holy Spirit to take control. You don’t need to go after him. He’s going to come after you , because he sees and smells you and knows that you’re in his presence, he’s going to want to know who you are! I know there is somebody reading this who has been chasing after the “man of your dreams,” but God says “Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me”.
Furthermore it is never a good idea to be too forward and too aggressive. Attempting to win a man’s affection by jumping into bed with him will only backfire and cause him to lose interest in ever developing a lasting relationship. It causes him to lose respect for you and question your character.
However if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you are somebody, that you look like you’re doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him. He’ll have no choice but to give you his attention. Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a man’s heart. God woke me up in the middle of the night and said “The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing I want my daughters to do for me”.
God is so sick of saints coming to him trying to get a quickie and never romancing Him for Who he is—going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadn’t been intimate with God all week long! Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: “I’m yours Lord everything I’ve got everything I’m not!”.
The God we serve, which is the God of Love, demands and requires of us foreplay before he gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth “You have to wash!”. John 15; 3 reminds us, “Now you are clean through the Word I have spoken to you. When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated Word of God, then the dirt and grime which you have accumulated all week long begins to wash off of you.
Ask God to create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit. Stand in the Word. Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength. Pass this on to those who have found or are seeking Mr. Right!
Forwarded by
Jessica ;D
For those of us who are single or married be blessed by this
word!
I often warn women who are contemplating marriage to marry someone who can take care of them. When a woman marries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of taking her to the next level. If she comes from poverty, there is no reason for her to get married and still be impoverished. The role of the Man is to take her to another place.
When she gets married she ought to dress better, drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantly be in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from. My grandmother used to say “I can do bad all by myself”. For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, ofcourse, would be to find a Christian man, who’s settled, has goals, accomplishments and a job.
But a goal oriented and focused man can’t just be approached any kind of way. So the woman who seeks this type of stability must make sure that she stands out above the crowd:
1. Make sure that your relationship with the Lord is strong and growing.
2. Make sure that you are presentable. Working from the inside out, your presentation should be representative of both who you are and whom you seek. Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself.
3. Have the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.
4. And most importantly allow the Holy Spirit to take control. You don’t need to go after him. He’s going to come after you , because he sees and smells you and knows that you’re in his presence, he’s going to want to know who you are! I know there is somebody reading this who has been chasing after the “man of your dreams,” but God says “Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me”.
Furthermore it is never a good idea to be too forward and too aggressive. Attempting to win a man’s affection by jumping into bed with him will only backfire and cause him to lose interest in ever developing a lasting relationship. It causes him to lose respect for you and question your character.
However if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you are somebody, that you look like you’re doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him. He’ll have no choice but to give you his attention. Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a man’s heart. God woke me up in the middle of the night and said “The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing I want my daughters to do for me”.
God is so sick of saints coming to him trying to get a quickie and never romancing Him for Who he is—going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadn’t been intimate with God all week long! Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: “I’m yours Lord everything I’ve got everything I’m not!”.
The God we serve, which is the God of Love, demands and requires of us foreplay before he gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth “You have to wash!”. John 15; 3 reminds us, “Now you are clean through the Word I have spoken to you. When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated Word of God, then the dirt and grime which you have accumulated all week long begins to wash off of you.
Ask God to create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit. Stand in the Word. Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength. Pass this on to those who have found or are seeking Mr. Right!
Forwarded by
Jessica ;D
