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Nov 29, 2007 18:25:45 GMT -5
Post by chosen on Nov 29, 2007 18:25:45 GMT -5
You know I was thinking, maybee there really isn't no point in getting married if you are unable to have children/ barren. I mean one of the main reasons for marriage is to have children. Im not saying that is the only reason. So I am wondering if there really isnt any point in finding a spouse. Especially if you already know that you can't have children. Plus Im always afraid that I would get rejected by my husband if I was unable to bare children there are men out there like that. I know back in the Bible times you where considered cursed if you where unable to conceive. Maybee that is what is wrong with me" I am cursed"
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Barren
Nov 29, 2007 21:10:27 GMT -5
Post by giantsdodie on Nov 29, 2007 21:10:27 GMT -5
You know I was thinking, maybee there really isn't no point in getting married if you are unable to have children/ barren. I mean one of the main reasons for marriage is to have children. Im not saying that is the only reason. So I am wondering if there really isnt any point in finding a spouse. Especially if you already know that you can't have children. Plus Im always afraid that I would get rejected by my husband if I was unable to bare children there are men out there like that. I know back in the Bible times you where considered cursed if you where unable to conceive. Maybee that is what is wrong with me" I am cursed" People get married for more reasons than that.. dont crawl into the bag chile... |
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Barren
Nov 29, 2007 23:17:59 GMT -5
Post by Nikkol on Nov 29, 2007 23:17:59 GMT -5
And honestly, just because doctors have said something doesn't mean that it's true..... you can still have children because with God all things are possible.......
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Barren
Nov 30, 2007 10:12:54 GMT -5
Post by livinganewlife on Nov 30, 2007 10:12:54 GMT -5
You know I was thinking, maybee there really isn't no point in getting married if you are unable to have children/ barren. I mean one of the main reasons for marriage is to have children. Im not saying that is the only reason. So I am wondering if there really isnt any point in finding a spouse. Especially if you already know that you can't have children. Plus Im always afraid that I would get rejected by my husband if I was unable to bare children there are men out there like that. I know back in the Bible times you where considered cursed if you where unable to conceive. Maybee that is what is wrong with me" I am cursed" God told Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply and replenish the Earth...... Yes one way to be fruitful and multiply is to birth children but another way to be fruitful and multiply is to plant into some child's life who doesn't have a positive female role model or your husband could be the role model to a young boy who has never seen a married couple in action (i mean treating a woman with respect, being loyal to one wife, taking care of the home, cutting the yard, going to work everyday just to name a few actions)..... Jessica don't limit yourself...... i can't have children (at least that's what the Doctor's say)...... i volunteer as a wish granter for Make A Wish foundation where I assist in granting the wishes of terminally ill children....... I work with the youth of my church and you would be surprised at the young girls out there who can't talk to their mothers about basic life skills and I bring that to the table..... After one of my youth rap sessions it was discovered that one of my girls was being molested by her father and my husband and i took her in until the court hearings were over..... that child needed someone in her life to be there for her and get her out of that situation and God used my husband and I to assist her and her mom. This was a bad situation too..... But as a result this child has seen what a real man is and that all men are not like her father....... my husband was very good to her and her mother and was very very very very understanding in this situation....... You can see Christ moving in my husband as we counseled this young girl..... This is an example of being fruitful and multiplying in the Earth without actually given birth to children....... Now as a sister in Christ I must say this and I mean this in all sincerity please please do not take this as coming down hard on you..........
But Jessica the first thing you must do is change your outlook on life. Who's report are you going to believe?
God is greater than any Doctor any problem or any situation you may ever encounter......
The power of your tongue and mind set can and will create your outcome...... Instead of saying there is no need for me to get married because I can't have children......
Why don't YOU turn your situation around and say "Whether married or not I am going to from this day forward make a difference in a child's life...... if a child is in need it is up to me to show them Christ.....
But Jessica with you're attitude you can't show anyone Christ or that you are an overcomer because you speak death on every situation in your life..... but JESUS is life.............
The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy but Jesus said I am come that you may have life and LIFE more abundantly......
Baby don't just talk the talk or sing the songs just to make noise believe in the POWER that is behind all these Holy Ghost songs you post and sing about within your heart. |
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Barren
Nov 30, 2007 10:13:05 GMT -5
Post by And Such Were Some Of You on Nov 30, 2007 10:13:05 GMT -5
And honestly, just because doctors have said something doesn't mean that it's true..... you can still have children because with God all things are possible....... Amen! |
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Barren
Nov 30, 2007 12:10:12 GMT -5
Post by chosen on Nov 30, 2007 12:10:12 GMT -5
You know I was thinking, maybee there really isn't no point in getting married if you are unable to have children/ barren. I mean one of the main reasons for marriage is to have children. Im not saying that is the only reason. So I am wondering if there really isnt any point in finding a spouse. Especially if you already know that you can't have children. Plus Im always afraid that I would get rejected by my husband if I was unable to bare children there are men out there like that. I know back in the Bible times you where considered cursed if you where unable to conceive. Maybee that is what is wrong with me" I am cursed" God told Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply and replenish the Earth...... Yes one way to be fruitful and multiply is to birth children but another way to be fruitful and multiply is to plant into some child's life who doesn't have a positive female role model or your husband could be the role model to a young boy who has never seen a married couple in action (i mean treating a woman with respect, being loyal to one wife, taking care of the home, cutting the yard, going to work everyday just to name a few actions)..... Jessica don't limit yourself...... i can't have children (at least that's what the Doctor's say)...... i volunteer as a wish granter for Make A Wish foundation where I assist in granting the wishes of terminally ill children....... I work with the youth of my church and you would be surprised at the young girls out there who can't talk to their mothers about basic life skills and I bring that to the table..... After one of my youth rap sessions it was discovered that one of my girls was being molested by her father and my husband and i took her in until the court hearings were over..... that child needed someone in her life to be there for her and get her out of that situation and God used my husband and I to assist her and her mom. This was a bad situation too..... But as a result this child has seen what a real man is and that all men are not like her father....... my husband was very good to her and her mother and was very very very very understanding in this situation....... You can see Christ moving in my husband as we counseled this young girl..... This is an example of being fruitful and multiplying in the Earth without actually given birth to children....... Now as a sister in Christ I must say this and I mean this in all sincerity please please do not take this as coming down hard on you..........
But Jessica the first thing you must do is change your outlook on life. Who's report are you going to believe?
God is greater than any Doctor any problem or any situation you may ever encounter......
The power of your tongue and mind set can and will create your outcome...... Instead of saying there is no need for me to get married because I can't have children......
Why don't YOU turn your situation around and say "Whether married or not I am going to from this day forward make a difference in a child's life...... if a child is in need it is up to me to show them Christ.....
But Jessica with you're attitude you can't show anyone Christ or that you are an overcomer because you speak death on every situation in your life..... but JESUS is life.............
The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy but Jesus said I am come that you may have life and LIFE more abundantly......
Baby don't just talk the talk or sing the songs just to make noise believe in the POWER that is behind all these Holy Ghost songs you post and sing about within your heart. Thank you livinganewlife we sure do need more people like you in the world you are trully a blessing. |
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Barren
Nov 30, 2007 22:57:34 GMT -5
Post by stillfocused on Nov 30, 2007 22:57:34 GMT -5
LANL..thanks for encouraging this young lady in only the way you can. Hannah, Leah, and Rachel were women you were all barren; yet, they all gave birth to men who became judges, one's who name means PRAISE..and the other a man who saved the lives of many. Speak life over yourself, sometimes you have to encourage yourself with word of God and other times you may have stand when that's all you can. Shucks, lay hands on yourself and command your body to line up and operate the way that God created to be and for; and the next time the doctor tells you what they see..kindly thank them and tell them you're believing and walking in the healing that God promised you. May I suggest that you read go I Samuel and check out Hannah and then go to Genesis those 2 sisters Leah and Rachel it's amazing the things the Lord will reveal to you when you're open to receive what he has to say.
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Barren
Dec 13, 2007 2:15:50 GMT -5
Post by chosen on Dec 13, 2007 2:15:50 GMT -5
Thank you guys once again for your encouragment........ I did have a dream one time that I was testifying in church and in my dream I was pregnant with twins. My goodness I havn't figured if it was a spiritual thing or it was a natural thing? But all I heard God say was " Im gonna give you double for your trouble" wewwwwwwwwww Lord it made me want to shout.... Thank you Jesus! All that I been through, Its gonna be worth it all some beautiful Happy Day  |
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