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Post by zelica on Feb 26, 2008 3:35:01 GMT -5
NO livinganewlife I am not making any excuses or anything, I have some things in the works....I have been working the last 4 nights 12 hour shifts so Its just I was very limited to all I can do the last couple days.... When you work 12 hour shifts you really dont have a whole lote of time to do anything.....SO please quit going off on me like that.... I wasn't going off on you; and i know it is very hard to tell the tone of a person when writing on a BB.... But I do want to say that information has been given to you and yet you come back on the BB with an excuse of not being able to fill out the application because you have to wait until you get paid…… In which if you would have called the apartment leasing manager you would have known that what you speak of is not so as they do not charge for filling out an application…. I don’t know you from ADAM; however as soon as I saw the post from Sister AT; I immediately called just to see what were the proper steps to take to secure an application in case you couldn’t get to a telephone. I called all three apartment housing listed and only one was accepting applications and that was the Vesta View…… So please call them and get this ball rolling! Luv ya! The only reason why I said I was going to wait until I got paid was because when I went to the site it looked like that there was going to be a fee for submitting the application.
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Post by Jasmine on Feb 26, 2008 13:59:49 GMT -5
thanks I figure everybody will be happy to see me leave! Now you all can PARTY ;D CHOW Jessica I wrote out what i was going to say..seven times. Seriously...and there is no other way I can say it. People don't want to see you leave, they want to see you mature spiritually. Jessica, you worry WAY to much about what people of think of you, and I believe I know why, however I will keep it to myself. Along with daily bible study, try reading Battlefield of the Mind, by Joyce Meyers. I think it will bless you.
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Post by zelica on Feb 26, 2008 15:20:22 GMT -5
thanks I figure everybody will be happy to see me leave! Now you all can PARTY ;D CHOW Jessica I wrote out what i was going to say..seven times. Seriously...and there is no other way I can say it. People don't want to see you leave, they want to see you mature spiritually. Jessica, you worry WAY to much about what people of think of you, and I believe I know why, however I will keep it to myself. Along with daily bible study, try reading Battlefield of the Mind, by Joyce Meyers. I think it will bless you. Sometimes I do care what people think about me Ive always been that way..... I know you all think I crazy and a psycho... and Jazz please feel free to share why you think I care so much about how others think about me...
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Post by Jasmine on Feb 26, 2008 16:01:07 GMT -5
I wrote out what i was going to say..seven times. Seriously...and there is no other way I can say it. People don't want to see you leave, they want to see you mature spiritually. Jessica, you worry WAY to much about what people of think of you, and I believe I know why, however I will keep it to myself. Along with daily bible study, try reading Battlefield of the Mind, by Joyce Meyers. I think it will bless you. Sometimes I do care what people think about me Ive always been that way..... I know you all think I crazy and a psycho... See thats where you are wrong, and you have to change that negative mind frame. As a man thinketh SO IS HE. It's time to be renewed in your mind. You don't have to be a people pleaser, You don't have to worry what people think of you.. when you think highly of yourself. Real Talk TIME ? U ready? Low self esteem is a killer. When you look in the mirror, you shouldn't think..I hate myself, I hate my life..Im nothing. And thats what people are trying to get you to see..Everybody has their own way in how they approach you with it..Some people are a little harder on you, Some people have that no nonsense approach, But everyone's ultimate goal and objective is the same. To help you see you how God see's you. Lastly, you say you've always been like that...but if you soul search, you will be able to pin point..when, why and how. Give it to God, make your supplication known. God can and will show you..the root. If you want change to occur...You need to make it happen. People can direct, and assist, but Jessica, they can't do it for you. So stop seeking "acceptance" from people. If you accept yourself..its not going to matter what people think of you. When you think highly of yourself..Nobody can tear you down, and make you feel like nothing. Your Jessica. Be Jessica. Do Jessica. Think highly of Jessica. Love Jessica. Go Look in the mirror and tell Jessica how much You love Her. God Loves Jessica.
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Post by Jasmine on Feb 26, 2008 16:07:03 GMT -5
I wrote out what i was going to say..seven times. Seriously...and there is no other way I can say it. People don't want to see you leave, they want to see you mature spiritually. Jessica, you worry WAY to much about what people of think of you, and I believe I know why, however I will keep it to myself. Along with daily bible study, try reading Battlefield of the Mind, by Joyce Meyers. I think it will bless you. Sometimes I do care what people think about me Ive always been that way..... I know you all think I crazy and a psycho... and Jazz please feel free to share why you think I care so much about how others think about me... Actually, You already know the answer to that question.
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Post by zelica on Feb 26, 2008 19:05:25 GMT -5
Sometimes I do care what people think about me Ive always been that way..... I know you all think I crazy and a psycho... and Jazz please feel free to share why you think I care so much about how others think about me... Actually, You already know the answer to that question. I really dont know, I have no idea.
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Post by zelica on Feb 26, 2008 19:24:08 GMT -5
OK this has really gotten out of hand Im going to go ahead and leave....take care everyone!
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Post by livinganewlife on Feb 27, 2008 12:08:25 GMT -5
OK this has really gotten out of hand Im going to go ahead and leave....take care everyone! In case you decide to come back! LOL Have you contacted any of the housing agencies?
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Post by Jasmine on Feb 27, 2008 12:48:39 GMT -5
OK this has really gotten out of hand Im going to go ahead and leave....take care everyone! What has gotten out of hand? If you don't mind me asking?
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Post by stillfocused on Feb 29, 2008 11:08:06 GMT -5
Jessica..it is tough !! But, guess what when you step up to the plate and confront that devil called rejection many things that have been held up will be released. Stand toe to toe with that imp and let him know he no longer will be allowed to do what he wants to do you or your life.
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Post by zelica on Mar 23, 2008 22:02:06 GMT -5
Heyyyyyyyyy Guys guess what, I think I found a place, this girl that I work with is needed a roommate and she said that I was more than welcome to come and check it out and see if I would want to move in.... So you all pray that it works out it will be cood to finally get settled and not worry about where I am going to lay my head at night....
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Post by anointedteacher on Mar 23, 2008 23:46:19 GMT -5
Praise God! make sure she give you a lease agreement... show the total you will have to pay for rent and utilities per month and the move-in amount
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Post by zelica on Mar 23, 2008 23:49:29 GMT -5
Praise God! make sure she give you a lease agreement... show the total you will have to pay for rent and utilities per month and the move-in amount I will AT ;D
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Post by kanyon on Mar 24, 2008 0:56:39 GMT -5
Heyyyyyyyyy Guys guess what, I think I found a place, this girl that I work with is needed a roommate and she said that I was more than welcome to come and check it out and see if I would want to move in.... So you all pray that it works out it will be cood to finally get settled and not worry about where I am going to lay my head at night.... Glad to hear that Jess. Just make sure absolutley everything is very clear about both of your expectations of each other re rent utilities chores use of washroom, how much hot water to use for shower bath etc. Do not fall for, "oh well we'll work everything out after you move in. Is she upto date with her rent etc. How long does she plan to stay there or are her bags packed by the window ready to throw out. LOL Just watching out for you...
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Post by zelica on Mar 24, 2008 1:02:01 GMT -5
Heyyyyyyyyy Guys guess what, I think I found a place, this girl that I work with is needed a roommate and she said that I was more than welcome to come and check it out and see if I would want to move in.... So you all pray that it works out it will be cood to finally get settled and not worry about where I am going to lay my head at night.... Glad to hear that Jess. Just make sure absolutley everything is very clear about both of your expectations of each other re rent utilities chores use of washroom, how much hot water to use for shower bath etc. Do not fall for, "oh well we'll work everything out after you move in. Is she upto date with her rent etc. How long does she plan to stay there or are her bags packed by the window ready to throw out. LOL Just watching out for you... Thank you so much Kanyon I will definatley keep that in mind before making my final decision I am suppose to get together with her later on this week to go look at the apartment... She said that all utilities are included except electric and everything and she said that it usually is not very much.... I will be shore to look into all those things that you have mention thanks pops Love Jessica ;D
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